The complicated truth about adoption reunions – podcast | Adoption | The Guardian

Presented by Annie Kelly with David Batty. Produced by Casey Magloire and Brian McNamara; executive editors Sami Kent and Homa Khaleeli

Mon 22 Jun 2026 03.00 BST

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Guardian news editor David Batty spent years longing to meet his birth mother. But his reunion with the woman who had been forced to give him up was far from a fairytale ending. He explains why the legacy of forced adoption continues to cast such a long shadow

David Batty was seven years old when he was told he had been adopted. Years later, after learning more about his birth parents, he wanted to meet them. But when he was reunited with his mother, who had been forced to give him up, their relationship became strained.

David tells Annie Kelly how he came to be one of tens of thousands of children whose birth mothers were coerced into relinquishing them for adoption, often in the name of child’s “moral welfare”. The Church of England has apologised for its role in forced adoptions, and the government has indicated it will follow suit.

He describes the search for his birth family, the painful and complicated feelings that surfaced when they finally met, and the joy of meeting his half-brother.

You can read David’s story My mother was forced to give me up for adoption. But when we finally met decades later, it was far from a fairytale ending – Adoption is 4 U

If you are an adult adoptee in the UK and would like to share your experience of reuniting with a birth parent the Guardian wants to hear from you. Follow this link to get in touch.

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